Tolani Baj insists asking about body count is disrespectful

Tolani Baj, a former contestant on Big Brother Naija and accomplished disc jockey, has expressed her opinion on the appropriateness of questioning women about their sexual histories, stating that it is disrespectful for potential partners to inquire about such personal details.

In the latest episode of the Bahd And Boujee Podcast, hosted by Tolani Baj and actress Moet Abebe, the reality star shared her perspective on relationships and the boundaries that should be respected.

While Tolani Baj revealed that her own body count is low, she firmly expressed her belief that probing into a woman’s body count is not an acceptable line of questioning. She emphasized that it’s not a matter of shame but rather a matter of respecting a person’s privacy.

“If a partner asks me about my exes, relationship history, I’m okay. But something I won’t answer is body count. I feel like, ‘What’s really your business?’ My body count is not high but I still feel like it’s disrespectful to ask a woman about her body count. It’s not because I’m ashamed to say the amount, it’s just like, ‘Who do you think you’re to be asking me that kind of question?'” explained Tolani Baj.