Tolanibaj opens up about her approach to cheating in relationships

Tolanibaj, a former contestant on Big Brother Naija and a DJ, recently shared her perspective on dealing with infidelity in a relationship during the maiden episode of the Bahd And Boujee Podcast, which she co-hosts with actress Moet Abebe.

Tolanibaj admitted that if her partner were to cheat on her, she would be inclined to seek revenge, emphasizing her determination to maintain honesty and openness in her relationships.

She explained her stance: “If you cheat on me, I will cheat on you back no matter how much I love you. Oh God! I will not go through your phone… Maybe at the beginning, I will warn you. When I warn guys it might come off as a threat but I’m really keeping it 100. It may not be a good way of living. It may be very toxic but it works for me.”

Tolanibaj also highlighted the importance of value in a relationship, noting that she would consider leaving a partner who cheated if they were not adding value to her life. However, she might choose to endure a toxic relationship if her partner is empowering her.

Her closing statement echoed the sentiment of seeking better circumstances: “If you cheat on me and you are not adding value to me, what am I still doing there? Do you get it? That’s how I see it. I would prefer to cry in a Lamborghini than in a keke [tricycle].”

Tolanibaj’s candid discussion on relationships sheds light on her approach to cheating and the role that empowerment and value play in her decisions within a romantic partnership.